Who are you? What do you want? Who do you want to be?

I was inspired recently by a fellow blogger to write this...

To fellow mommas:

Who are you? Are you everything you ever hoped you would be? Are you comfortable in your own skin? Are you confident to take a stand and not fear standing out there all by yourself?

Sometimes we as mothers feel like we have to be a certain way, say certain things, and fit into a particular mold, but guess what? Thats crap. Its totally okay to come home from work and secretly wish you were coming home to a single girls life....at least for one night, for peace, quite, and a good book...or reality show!

When will we as moms stop measuring our own self worth by judging the actions or perceived motivations of others?

So, what are some of the very things that we judge other mothers on? Simple. Style, career, discipline methods, social life, schooling type, relationship status, etc. The list goes on and on. I am in no way perfect (BELIEVE ME!!) but I would advise one thing...do what you want...there is no reason why moms cannot also be people.

Do you ever shy away from being associated with something because you fear what others will think? Well you suck. You are living your life for someone else, and not yourself, and for that...you suck.

Consider yourself enlightened.

Dee